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How To Make Your New Year’s Resolutions Stick!

by thundafunda.net

 A New Year’s resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other.  ~Author Unknown

Not everyone makes New Year’s Resolutions…

there are some people who don’t see the new year

as a time for reinvention, recharging, reconditioning,

reenergizing, reinvigorating, reorganizing.

It’s just January.

But if you’re one of those people who have made a resolution to change

something in 2012…

and, by the way, if you are one of those people…

you are TEN TIMES MORE LIKELY to make a significant

improvement in your life this year…

then this post may help you to do that.


We all have good intentions to change, and we can easily set goals.

As with almost everything in life, it’s the follow-through that is hard.

If you want to improve your chances of seeing your good intentions

actually bear fruit in the coming year, then here are 3 things

you should seriously consider doing.

#1  :  GET REAL

You heard me.

If your New Year’s Resolutions include losing 100 pounds,

re-locating to Seattle, finding a new career, and getting married

then you are on a path to failure, burnout, insanity, or worse.

(Is there worse?)

If you want to be really successful with something, pick the

most important thing on your list you want to do

and focus on that…and only on that…

until you’ve done it.

Then if it’s April and you’ve already re-located to Seattle happily,

then you can get to work on that healthy lifestyle change.

Wouldn’t you rather have one awesome goal achieved

by 2013 than 5 or 6 failed intentions?


You need to use carrots (not real ones) to accomplish your goals:

Your goal is to walk for 20 minutes every day, and you put

a big 🙂 on your calendar on the days you actually do it.

If you have 5 out of 7 days on your calendar that week with

🙂  on it, then you get to (fill in the blank).  Nice carrot!


You reward yourself until the health and physical benefits

of walking 20 minutes every day kick in and become their

own reward and motivation for you to continue.

Want to make this even more effective?  Add a stick.

A stick is a consequence you will enforce with yourself if

you don’t get those 5  🙂  on your calendar…make it something

you dread even more than getting out there walking…

like having to go through all your files for tax season.  Ugh.


Everyone I know who goes to a gym regularly dreads January

and can’t wait until the end of March…know why?

Because everyone with all the good intentions to hit the gym

every week start in January and fizzle out by the end of March.

If you don’t want to “fizzle out”, then you’re going to have to

have your eye on the ball come April 1.


Decide now…write it on your calendar…to have quarterly

“board meetings” with yourself to evaluate how well you

are doing with your good intentions and your goals.


April 1st, July 1st, October 1st, and December 31st are

good days to sit down and keep yourself honest.

Are you doing what you said you were going to do?

If not, why not?  What do you need to fix, change, ditch,

do instead?  Making quarterly adjustments works better

than fizzling out in March and feeling like “there just went

another year of New Year’s Resolutions down the drain.”


I leave you with this quote by Oprah Winfrey, because

I too believe that with every new day we have another

chance to learn more, do better, and “get it right”…

whatever that may mean for you in this New Year!

For more help in setting goals for the new year and

for making positive changes, check out sanzplans’

A Year to Change!


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